red5 Server Setup and Streaming

I have a web site at [login to view URL] * It is hosted on Slicehost and I have root permissions - SSH access.? * The operating system is Ubuntu (Hardy I think). * The site itself runs on WordPress 3 * The webcam is a Panasonic IP camera and it will stream mjpeg or mpeg4 I want the camera to stream flash on the page its presently on so I believe it needs the red5 server. All I want the dev or coder to do is capture the mjpeg or mpeg4 stream and stream it as flash instead so that it works more? consistently? across browsers - presently the cam works fine in Chrome, Firefox and Safari but in IE it either asks for an ActiveX install or does nothing at all. Im not 100% this is even possible or that I know what I'm talking about -- if its not possible please say so. I also need a page set up for iPhone users that will keep the original stream because obviously iPhones don't do flash. Im not stuck on red5 (though there is no way I'm purchasing a Flash Media Server) I just need to solve the browser problem. If the flash plugin is not installed the site should fail gracefully and prompt for flash player install