Wordpress fixes - Reposting with specifics

Hi, I'm reposting my project, this time with exact specifics so I can get your precise bid. Please see: [login to view URL] 1) When loading, the 'loading wheel icon' dissappears and nothing happens for about ten seconds. Then the photos/gifs come on. I need to fix the 'loading wheel' so it stays on until the page truly loads. In this 10 seconds of dead time, people think my website is broken and go away. 2) Currently it loads in groups of 10 photos / gifs. I'm wondering if we reduce this number to five, then the site will seem responsive. The photos and gifs are already optimised / low resolution. 3) Video streaming. If you click any of my gifs you will see that it takes you to a page where I stream the video from Youku. I live and work in China, so I can't use any of the other popular streaming services. Youku is horrible image quality, so I have decided to stream locally from my sinohosting server. With you I need to increase my storage / streaming allocation there, upload all my videos, and insert a video player for each of my video pages. I'm a film director, and I need to show my work in it's best quality. 4) There's a strange error on my 'about / contact ' page title. I fix it in wordpress back-end, but when I publish, that change does not result. This is probably a quick fix. 5) . On home page, one must scroll down to active more loading. This should not be necessary. It should just show what is loaded, and keep loading. 6) On my media container, there is a 2 megabyte limit for photos / gifs. This needs to be increased. Sometimes my gifs are about 3 or 4 megabytes. This is the best I can do to describe the work to be done. Please contact me through this website only and provide an exact estimate of work time and price. I am not in a rush. I prefer well done work with care and attention to detail. Many thanks.