AMF Flash chat modes

I have a dating site that is 97% complete ... I need someone to finish the mods we were making to AMF FlashChat The mods to make it work with my site are: 1. Each private chat must have its own window when clicked on from one of the pages (whos online, or profile pages) 2. Both the X from the browser button and the one in the flash application must function as expected ..(there is currently a problem where the user closes the window with the browser X and the server can't tell its closed. this can be fixed with a time stamp that gets checked every few seconds) 3. In our members area the IM'd You (1) is not working. Log who IM's a member and keep this up to date. The start time finish time of and members chating must be logged each time. We must have this for other applications we use. 4. The blocked users page in the members area is not working. when a user blocks someone in chat this table and page must be updated. Users must also be able to block a member from the private chat. I should be able to block a user by clicking his name in private chat and selecting block. 5. Make sure these Privace settings page in our members area work for this app. * Hide me on the Who's Online page: also from public chat. * Block all members from Instant Messaging me: * Hide me on the Who's IM'd Me Hot List: 6. I'm able to private chat with myself .. this should not happen.. 7. I should be able to view a users profile by clicking on their member name in a private chat pop up or from the public chat tool. 8. Our programmer set the application to look for connections by refreshing the page every 10 seconds. The defualt on most browers is to make click noise each time a window is refreshed. If its possible find a way to disable the click or another way to check for connection.. this constant clicking becomes very annoying I expect that it be completely functional and work like other chat systems. YOU MUST UNDERSTAND PHP, FLASH, MYSQL and JAVASCRIPT I DON'T EXECPT BIDS FROM NEW USERS WITH OUT FEEDBACK or users with negitive feedback. I want to see projects you have completed. I don't care if this this is a single programer guru or a programing team. If you want to see how it currently works PM me and I'll give you the URL to the test server. (If you meet my other requirements.. good history of feedback). I have sample code from Macromedia's site that shows interaction between flash, php and myslql. [login to view URL] MAX BID WILL BE 400-450 NO MORE THAN THAT WILL BE PAID....